Community

One of the most beautiful things that we create as people in this world are communities.  Innately, I believe all humans seek this sense of belonging - something that makes us feel at home or connected.  I think it's the one thing that immediately wins me over when choosing to do something solo or be part of something that connects me with others (that's the extrovert in me).

I woke up and had the best morning ever - details unnecessary because really, it was all just ordinary day things... but damn it, did it bring me so much warm fuzzy joy.  I had the singular goal today of trying out a few dance studios that I had Yelped! so I took the bus to my first stop and entered in to inquire about membership and classes.  However, within 30 minutes of meeting one of the Hula instructors and one of the long time members, Doris, I signed up for my own unlimited class membership.

It caught me off guard what I found today.  I was expecting to explore a few more options in my area before making any decisions at all, but I was overwhelmed by the sense of community that I found at this studio.  The energy that I felt was so incredibly positive and the studio felt like such a safe haven for those that want to use movement as a means of fitness, release, passion, et cetera.  That's the beauty of movement in my opinion.  That it is yours.  YOUR expression.  It is whatever and however much you want it to be in order to feel what it is that you need it to feel; it's just a matter of finding the best platform or resource(s) for you to further tap into that movement.  The studio radiated something magnetic and the women, especially Doris, made me feel instantly like I belonged there.

Today was actually Doris' birthday and as we spent time chatting with each other - I shared my story on why I was in Hawai'i and what I was seeking.  Soon after, I got to know her also; not by what she told me, but by the actions and clear impact that she had on others that was shown.  We started today's Hula lesson in a circle giving thanks and well wishes and every woman there shouted out Doris for her birthday.  Some got emotional (as did Doris who broke into tears) speaking about what she meant to them and the community and spirit of the studio.  Honestly, at first when I had met her I had thought to myself, "how lucky am I that this woman befriended my n00b ass?!"  But I caught on quickly; this is who she is... the welcomer, the one that makes you feel invited and comfortable unhesitatingly.  She was adorned by not only kind words by her Hula sisters, but by lei's that they brought for her as gifts, cupcakes, and food to celebrate after our lesson today.  It was all so special.  I couldn't help but admire her and sense my own feelings of gratitude to be now part of her story and I in hers.

I spent nearly 3 hours at the studio today before I walked along Ala Moana to get home.  Meanwhile, thinking that it's only day two of my HI life and I've already found a community.  Lucky duck me.  Tomorrow, I'm taking Intro to Bellydancing (LOL) and I already can't wait.